Is honesty the best policy? A guy approaches you and strikes up a conversation. He asks you for your number. He calls you and gives you the rundown about how he is not interested in a relationship. He is looking for a friend. How presumptuous of him of him to assume you want to sleep with him. He might as well had walked up to you and asked you to sleep with him. It is not what you say but how you say it. Some women approached in this manner would be impressed and sleep with him anyway. Can you handle the truth?
The Big O
Ever had the kind of sex where you see the sun, the moon, the mountains, and rivers. Afterwards you are speechless staring off in space in pure amazement. You cannot believe he put it on you like that. Relax yourself. Let you conscious breath. Ladies some of you are guilty of drifting off into your minds during sex. Your mental health can often be a reflection of the kind of sex you have. If you are somewhere else mentally then physically you cannot feel the full effect of the sex. Ladies let me get deep for a minute. Whatever hang-ups that you have had in the past let them go. Free yourself. An orgasm can be very liberating. Do not fear this earth shattering sensation. It is meant to be. There is a sex god that exists to please you. Allow him to do that. Sit back and enjoy the moment. Stop over analyzing things. Don't question the master. Let him do his thing. The last thing you want to do is bring your issues to the bedroom. Leave that shit at the door. Handle your business. Allow your body to be totally uninhibited. Embrace his touch and kiss. Let his tongue playfully dance along your body. Ladies let's face facts it is almost a 100% guarantee a man will climax. It is a rarity that they don't. You deserve the big O. Orgasms even multiple ones are allowed. Take the focus off of him and put it back on you. Don't get so caught up in pleasing him that you forget to please yourself. If he is hitting your spot let him. Don't run solider up and take it like a pro. Ride it like a rodeo. It is yours for the taking. Let the damn cup runneth over.
Insatiable Appetite
How do you let your mate know that they are not satisfying you sexually? You are a bonafide freak and your man is not pleasing you right. You try to teach him but his ego gets in the way. You have brought toys to enhance things and he still does not get the picture. Tired of your B.O.B. you are at your wits end what's a girl to do?
Excess Baggage
Battle of the Sexes Question: Women when you date a new man do you let your past baggage interfere with your relationship? You know the saying goes you cannot blame every man for what one has done. In a relationship you have to take it one day at a time. Do not pre-judge the situation based on past indiscretions of someone else. Take it for what it is worth learn the lesson in love. If your previous man cheated be mindful of the clues that he will subconsciously leave for you. I dated a man after not dating for three years, when I saw this new man had a volatile temper I immediately ended the relationship. In my eyes that was a sign of an abusive relationship and I wanted no part of that again. If I cannot call you after a certain time at night or your phone is always on silent when I am around this is a sign of another woman. I learned these things from a previous relationship. I refuse to throw all my luggage at the next man. I will presume he is innocent until proven otherwise.
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